I'm saving for a house, so expensive nights out were off the table. It reached the point where my mother stopped asking, which honestly stung. My neighbor met her husband in a checkout line, and I genuinely envied the produce aisle. My physical therapist casually mentioned this farmers dating site and it respects my time more than any app I've paid for. Ask me again in a year, but right now I'd already call it a win. The way things are going, my next update might actually be a happy one.